Sunday, May 29, 2005
Dun Worry, Be Happy
This blog is dedicated to CM
1st, thank you for being an avid supporter of my blog, for actually reading it with your heart.
Next, it was very very good to see you recently and all the good food your uncle’s family whipped up. Rest assured that I’ll pray for Uncle. Will certainly check them out soon. And let me tell you, it was also an experience for me to be there at your race. Seeing you and all the participants put in the best to get to the finish line – is very encouraging.
Now, let’s get down to business. Carol and I kinda ‘talked’ about you 2 days ago. I want you to know that we both hope that you are well since going back home. We didn’t quite get the chance to talk while you were here and that’s a pity. On the other hand, I hope Boon did the job to cheer you up while u guys were hanging out.
My dear friend, I hope the invisible baggage you carried while you were here is getting lighter. One of the reason we both hit off the day you joined PD was that we were both going thru’ a similar phase in life then. And I am glad to tell you that things are finally coming to a close for me. I have moved on in my life already, I dare say. My mindset is quite different now. I see life from a different perspective. It was a humbling experience and I now cherish (conscientiously) all that I have. I try to be happy every minute of my life coz I think I was sad for too long a time. Life is still not all that great (u know what I mean, ha ha ha). But it is definitely better than the past 3 years.
My friend, I dun intend to tell you what to do. I am not qualified. All I can say is, love yourself above all, but never at the expense of others. Also, love your family and all those who stood by you when you needed them. Whoever you decide to go with, be honest to yourself and choose with your heart and mind. Remember, hurt no one, including yourself. It is never about saving face. If your think C is the one, then dun wait. But if you are not sure, take your time to think but dun leave J hanging aimlessly. It is not something she deserves.
Having said all these, please stay happy – that’s what you deserve, no matter what!!
1st, thank you for being an avid supporter of my blog, for actually reading it with your heart.
Next, it was very very good to see you recently and all the good food your uncle’s family whipped up. Rest assured that I’ll pray for Uncle. Will certainly check them out soon. And let me tell you, it was also an experience for me to be there at your race. Seeing you and all the participants put in the best to get to the finish line – is very encouraging.
Now, let’s get down to business. Carol and I kinda ‘talked’ about you 2 days ago. I want you to know that we both hope that you are well since going back home. We didn’t quite get the chance to talk while you were here and that’s a pity. On the other hand, I hope Boon did the job to cheer you up while u guys were hanging out.
My dear friend, I hope the invisible baggage you carried while you were here is getting lighter. One of the reason we both hit off the day you joined PD was that we were both going thru’ a similar phase in life then. And I am glad to tell you that things are finally coming to a close for me. I have moved on in my life already, I dare say. My mindset is quite different now. I see life from a different perspective. It was a humbling experience and I now cherish (conscientiously) all that I have. I try to be happy every minute of my life coz I think I was sad for too long a time. Life is still not all that great (u know what I mean, ha ha ha). But it is definitely better than the past 3 years.
My friend, I dun intend to tell you what to do. I am not qualified. All I can say is, love yourself above all, but never at the expense of others. Also, love your family and all those who stood by you when you needed them. Whoever you decide to go with, be honest to yourself and choose with your heart and mind. Remember, hurt no one, including yourself. It is never about saving face. If your think C is the one, then dun wait. But if you are not sure, take your time to think but dun leave J hanging aimlessly. It is not something she deserves.
Having said all these, please stay happy – that’s what you deserve, no matter what!!
# posted by nic @ 11:02 PM 
